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The End of Humor

by Marc Lefton
Thursday, August 9, 2007. 09:59AM
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This blog on Copyblogger.com provokes an interesting topic. We're all in an industry that at one time or another celebrates irreverence and humor.

However, at what point do we let the humor slide in favor of professionalism? As someone with a pretty wicked dry sense of humor and a penchant for even some elaborate practical jokes, suppressing my sense of humor is difficult. But in the past two years I think I've grown up a bit and find myself typing out something funny and then questioning exactly how someone would take it if they don't know me that well. Most of the time I find myself hitting delete and sending something more tame.

I've been burned enough by being misunderstood to know that although this makes life a little less interesting, it's probably a wise choice. Poorly timed humor can come off as immature, trying too hard, or not trying hard enough.

A friend of mine has a son who was looking for his first copywriting job. He sent me an email that was a parody of a viagra ad as a joke for his letter to me. I immediately kicked his ass because if it. If I didn't know him, surely I would have indeed thought I got a viagra spam, and not knowing where to buy it, I would have just deleted it.

I had repeated run ins with a coworker over my sense of humor. A senior account person had never worked with creatives before, and didn't understand that sometimes creatives blow off a little steam by being funny. Because this person had no limit to his sense of self-importance, I was told that he had "problem" with me and not to joke in the presence of his subordinates (who were on the email chain.)

Check out the blog I linked to and let me know your take. How has humor worked or backfired for you on the job?

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Friday, April 4, 2008. 01:15PM by Leanna Pierson
I had to work on my humor. "Perversion", turns out, wasn't at the top of certain people's list. I fashion towards the dirty side of jokes. Anyway, I was forced to tame myself around the groups when working on projects, so when I entered my first creative job and a new director with a broader view for what made good advertising was hired it was hard for me to break from the "you can't do that" mind set. But, I'm over that now.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008. 10:18PM by TJ Swafford
*cough*
Tuesday, March 25, 2008. 09:26PM by TJ Swafford
Tuesday, March 25, 2008. 09:22PM by TJ Swafford
So you now "edit" yourself? That's epically sad. This is how I LIKE to write...most of the time. http://www.vh1.com/interact... I think you need to be true to yourself. Hell...you may not even BE funny...but the lack of attempt is even worse. Hesitation is the fooging suckiest place to be...especially when you're a Creative...or so you thought?
Thursday, March 13, 2008. 02:52PM by x x
I've run into this too, Marc. I've mellowed with age, but it still happens. I think humor is generally acceptable if you make the joke on you. If you put it on someone else, you have to make damn sure they know where your heart is. And in front of others, it gets really touchy. My wife thinks that when I crack wise of her playfully in front of friends that I am disrespecting her. My own wife! So you can imagine what a coworker you don't know as well might think if you poke them too hard.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007. 10:48PM by Leah Lax
to further illustrate: you can tell 50 people to draw an apple. You'll get 50 different interpretations. It doesn't mean any of them are wrong. It doesn't mean any of them are right. But just because people see the world differently doesn't mean they should stop drawing apples, nor is their interpretation the fault of the apple.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007. 10:45PM by Leah Lax
honestly, in my experience, the people that seem to have the most trouble with humor of any kind are the ones who don't read very much - of anything. having a sense of humor has almost nothing to do with being smart. it has everything to do with being well-lived. the more you've lived and experienced, the funnier things are, even if they're sinister as hell. But just like everything, the color of the joke is all in the delivery. And in writing, you don't get long pauses, props or facial expressions. Not everyone nails the delivery. And everyone gets upset when they get a damaged package.
Sunday, August 26, 2007. 12:22PM by EXIT3A .com
It's time to stop being funny when you're not funny anymore. Or, when you go to bed.
Saturday, August 11, 2007. 06:11AM by Richard Track
HUMANS are the only ANIMALS that have a "SENSE OF HUMOR" ... why did we choose to be creatives?? why do we dont work in BAnks or INSURANCE companies??? why arent we depressed when our projects are misunderstood? ;;;;if there's anything in the concept of LIFE that is SERIOUS tell me about it ...here's some words that you might find serious but arent ....hunger, salary, boss institutions, deth , life , war , virus, earthquake, global warming , ghosts, banker , ocean, island , drowning , wedding, female , male , salad , insect etc etc etc you got my point
Thursday, August 9, 2007. 10:56AM by Buddy 'Friendly' Wachenheimer
:-(