Personal Interest

Who cares if 40 is the new 30?

by Dana Friedman
Thursday, December 30, 2004. 01:29PM
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Well, yesterday was my birthday. It was also the birthday of great standup comic Paula Poundstone, renowned actress Mary Tyler Moore, TV hunk Ted Danson, and great (faux southerner) actor Jon Voight. I turned 40. Jack Benny was 39 till he died at age 80. I really don't get it. As you get older, you (hopefully) get smarter. Even if you don't get smarter, you get more experienced. Who would want to say "Well, I'm young, pretty, maybe even smart, but I'm far too young to really know very much compared to what I'll know in 20 years.". Someone very wise once said "The older I get, the more I find out I don't know".

I'm happy to be 40. 40 is NOT the new 30. Comic great Elayne Boosler decided, at one point in her career to be in denial about her age. Way back when she said "I'm not 37...I'm twenty-seventeen". Ugh. I didn't mind my twenties. I had a sugar daddy (okay, a sweet and low Daddy) whom I probably couldn't get today...because he's dead now.

Obviously being 20 something has its merits. But being 40-something is much better when you're trying to run a business. I don't have any mentors who are twenty. I'm pretty sure all my mentors are older than me. Maybe there's something to that. Getting smarter will never be out of fashion.

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Thursday, February 3, 2005. 11:14PM by kelly Blanscet
And let's not forget the multiple orgasms that come with 40+...oops, did I say that out loud?
Friday, December 31, 2004. 06:42PM by Marc Lefton
Aw Noelle I was hoping 30 was about finally getting it done.
Friday, December 31, 2004. 04:29PM by debbie sharabi
I loved your article and your sense of humor.The older we get the better we get. It really is true.Its best to look towards our future and not ever let age stop us..
Friday, December 31, 2004. 07:51AM by Noelle Weaver
Dana, Loved this post. At 20 you're figuring out what you want to do with your life. At 30 your just trying to get the money, brains and contacts to do it. And by the time you reach 40 you can finally get it done!
Thursday, December 30, 2004. 04:43PM by john follis
As one who had a similar double-digit-change-birthday this year, I hear ya.